Thursday, August 21, 2014

Worn: Stripes & Floral, In Maxi Dress Form

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I bought this dress on our initial visit to Philadelphia. Justifying it as a sort of "Yeah! You got the job!" gift-to-self. I then proceeded to not wear it. For whatever reason. Despite all those facts, it makes me feel kind of amazing, and I wore it on Wednesday for our anniversary dinner at Twenty Manning. Three years, crazy and wonderful.

To be honest, I've been struggling a bit with self-confidence lately and I really needed an excuse to dress up and feel my best, and this dress was perfect for that. Adjusting to a new schedule, new city, new job, new everything, it's taken a small toll on my perception of myself. I started this year in a really positive headspace, so it's felt sort of defeating to take a step back mentally, in terms of how I view myself, and physically, as I haven't been able to get back into a gym routine yet. I'm working on it though. I just want to feel settled. I love our new place, really loving our new city, I love so much about our lives lately, but our place is still a disaster and I'm definitely still in the getting-to-know-you phase of meeting people. No matter how positively you go into a major change, especially a big move, it's going to be daunting in some respect. Always a few speed bumps.

As much as it causes a little mental distress, I do believe a little (or a lot) of upheaval is healthy every now and then. It gets you out of your comfort zone. With this move to Philadelphia, I've been making an effort to be more open. To try not to be so goddamn awkward and socially inept. Make note of the word effort in there. Man, are you ever just so aware of yourself? Ugh.

I've been getting rid of a lot of stuff lately, too. The extraneous stuff I've been holding on to, the clothes that don't make me feel amazing. It's got to go. Sometimes you just gotta clear up and clear out.

Get the look: Dress: Free People (on sale!) // Wedges: Flogg // Clutch: Vintage Coach //

Monday, August 18, 2014

Weekend Diary: Cape Cod

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The first weekend in August was our first weekend in our new place, while we would have been happy to be homebodies for two days, instead we loaded up the car and drove north to my grandparent’s house on Cape Cod. Bigger and better things. We had a party to get to. The drive itself was such a welcome change from what we'd become accustomed to. No real planning ahead, no worries about the havoc a 14 hour drive would wreak on our bank account, because now “home” (in its many, many senses) is only a few short hours away. No longer the all-day drive it once was. THIS, this is what I missed!

So we very happily woke up at 5am, packed up the car, and drove to Cape Cod to celebrate my grandparent’s 60th wedding anniversary. They renew their vows every 10 years, and it’s hard to believe 2004 – when we celebrated in Ireland - was that long ago. But it was. Time flies. It felt so good to be back on the Cape and good to be back around family, some of whom I haven’t seen since our wedding. We spent Saturday at the party they threw, and spent the majority of Sunday on the beach. It was a sleepy and sunburned drive home. But a drive that didn't take 14 hours. And for that I am thankful.

Sunday, August 17, 2014

Weekend Wishlist 8.17

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Well, another unintended hiatus. What can you do. Fingers crossed we get our internet up and running this week, at the moment I'm sitting in our local coffee shop, which is really very nice. I shouldn't complain. But we're going on a couple of months here with our lives flipped over, and I'm just ready to get back to normal. I want a routine. The break from online noise has been nice, I'll admit, though.

Anyway, I've been clearing out a lot of my belongings lately, thinking about where I want to bring my style in the coming season. Here's what I've had my eye on. Stay tuned this week for more posts. It'll happen. Ugh.
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// Portia Maxi dress from Avenle

// Texas Longhorn maxi dress form Mojave

// Lucy heel from AA

// Blue quartz necklace from Black Crystals - save 15% w/code "ORCHIDGREY"

// 90s barrel bag from Jess Amity

//The sweetest  90s floral mini skirt from Wolf Mama Vintage- save 15% w/code "ORCHIDGREY"

// My favorite dress is on sale!

// The perfect hat for fall.

// Palo santo smells so good!

Tuesday, August 5, 2014

Lived In

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Essentially what I've been living in these days and I'm getting a little sick of it. Shorts, tee shirts, sneakers. I miss my clothes. Mostly everything is still packed up stacked in an impenetrable wall of bins in our new place and I'm looking forward to sorting through it all once again and purging more stuff.

These were taken on a particularly sweaty afternoon while we were still apartment hunting, I think at this point we had walked about five miles and I wanted a beer and I'm not sure why I asked Chris for pictures. But I'm glad I did because: accessories. I dig it.

Get the look: Destroyed Tee & Necklace: Free People // Shorts: Vintage Thrifted Levi's // Converse Chuck Taylors // Rings: Vintage & Thrifted // Bag: Thrifted

Sunday, August 3, 2014

Weekend Wishlist 8.4

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Happy Sunday (night) -- did you have a good weekend? We spent both days unpacking, painting, and trying to bring order to our new place. We even ventured to Ikea. On a weekend. Oof. I can't wait to be fully moved in.
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// Vintage deadstock boots from JessAmity
// Sweet Spire clutch from Avenle
// Sunglasses from AA

A few more things I'm loving...
// This grey floral dress from Mojave is just gorgeous (above)
// More amazing styles from Black Crystals, love this solar quartz necklace (above) - save 15% w/code "ORCHIDGREY"
// Would you wear metallic tattoos
// 25 ways to feel less lonely. Some really great ideas here, for the lonely and non-lonely alike.
// Rebecca's photos from Ireland are so gorgeous.
// I'm making quinoa for my breakfasts this week, so here's 24 ways to eat it.
// I tried on this sweater today and it is SO soft - definitely on my list for next season.
// How cozy is this bedroom?
// This little light-up house would make a nice night light.
// Leopard print chucks? Yes please.
// Gorgeous braids.
// I made watermelon agua fresca and it was really good.
// Cute boots for fall. And a cute dress to wear them with now.
// A great hat.
// Misty Copeland's new Under Armour ad is pretty badass.
// A newborn photoshoot starring a dog. Genius. And painfully cute.
// Fascinating female occultists.


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Not going to ... apologize for not blogging. Why is it so tempting to say you're sorry after an absence? For being human and not being on the internet? Eh. Whatever. Hi! How are you what's up? I'm great. I've been taking some much needed time lately to just adjust and just ... be. I've needed time to get aquainted to my new surroundings, get comfortable at my new job, and get moved into my new apartment. I love it all, but I can't believe it's already August. This summer has flown by, and I'm not ready for it to end. It feels like I've spent this entire season in transition. Either I was anticipating moving, in the process of moving, or just finally moving -- constantly in motion and always looking ahead, which is exactly how you make something go by too quickly.

Watching ... Pitch Perfect, and feeling real happy about it. Also, every single season of Girls. And Big Love. And Game of Thrones. I'm still living in a hotel and hotel TV is awesome. At the same time though, I'm looking forward to not having the distraction around once we're in our new place. I watch enough Netflix as it is, I do not need cable.

Eating ... my way through Philly and trying really hard not to beat myself up about not being as disciplined as I normally try to be (try being the operative word here). I'm a creature of habit, so when my schedule gets disrupted it kind of screws me up and my sweet tooth takes over, and man, do i have a wicked sweet tooth. Whatever. Philly has some amazing food. So far, my favorite meal has been at Twenty Manning on 20th street. So good. But, I'm really looking forward to getting into our place and cooking again.

Working on ... and on that note, I've been working on being kinder to myself, listening to my body more, and just accepting the fact that I'm human.

Creeping on ... everyone's dogs at work. Oh man, there are SO many cute dogs at the office, I can't handle it. There's a pet supply store near where we're staying that partner's with Operation Ava, and they always have the sweetest adoptable dogs there. I'm a little dog-crazy lately.

Excited about ... moving! Chris is finally back in Philadelphia after spending a week in Pittsburgh packing the rest of our stuff, and we'll be spending this weekend trying to sort out our new space. So far, my conclusion is that we have too much shit and we need to get rid of most of it.

Anticipating ... seeing my family soon. We'll be heading up to Cape Cod this month for a family party and I'm looking forward to seeing a side of my family that I don't see as often as I'd like. I also haven't been to my grandparent's house for a few years, and I can't wait to walk down to the beach.

Laughing at ... my incredibly funny husband. The man can bust a move and I love him for it.

Wearing ... cut-offs and tees on most days. I've been busy and most of my clothes are packed, hence the lack of outfit posts. I've pretty much been wearing the same thing every day.

Craving ... coffee. It's early and we've run out.

Planning ... to spend my Sunday unpacking out apartment.

Loving ... work. And happy to be able to say so.


Sunday, July 27, 2014

Weekend Wishlist 7.27

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I hope you're having a beautiful Sunday morning. It's just me and Zephyr right now, Chris is back in Pittsburgh closing up our apartment and packing up the rest of our things. One more week until we move in! I'm planning to hit up Target and Ikea today before heading over to our new place to do some major cleaning. Exciting things.

Here's what caught my eye this week...
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// Cressida tunic from Avenle
// Boho cuff from JessAmity

A few more faves...
// Love this new necklace style from Black Crystals - save 15% w/code "orchidgrey"
// This scarf from Mojave would be perfect with a crisp white dress.
// Such a cute top
// Shelter cat dials 911 - the name of the shelter is kind of the funniest thing ever.
// John Stamos critiques 20 vintage photos of himself
// So in love with this dark floral dress - it would be perfect styled now, or later with boots and a jacket.
// Have you heard of Homejoy? I'm curious about it.
// These scalloped-edge sandals are the prettiest. Also obsessed with these.
// How gorgeous is the color of this suede tote?
// Sweet little nugget.

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Wednesday, July 23, 2014

Magic Garden

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These photos were taken on our second day in Philadelphia, since then I've become completely enamored with the Magic Gardens and their corresponding murals throughout the city. We've been spending most weekends and evenings after work walking around and strolling down unexplored side streets. It's kind of my favorite thing right now. When I leave the hotel we're currently calling home, I know I'll miss walking out the door and having so much right there. But I'm excited, too, to have our own space again, to look out on to a park, and to get to know a new neighborhood in a different part of Philadelphia. Life is exciting.

This outfit is a long-time favorite, a go-to for casual days when I want to feel more dressed up, though it's never made it to the blog before. I grabbed this skirt off an IG sale last summer, and I love the volume and pattern, it lends itself so easily to a variety of color pairings.

Get the look: Vintage Skirt: Mikasa Su Casa IG sale // Necklace: Avalon Exc. (similar) // Sandals: Seychelles (c/o) // Bag: Thrifted (similar)// Stamped bracelet: Thrifted (similar) // Skinny Bracelet: Studebaker Metals // Crop: Aeropostale (c/o)