tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3351729194362929032024-03-13T21:46:41.544-04:00Orchid GreyBig Hair, Small WalletOrchid Greyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14547415631237933862noreply@blogger.comBlogger1420125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-335172919436292903.post-63850945235046442862020-09-02T18:54:00.003-04:002020-09-02T18:54:35.725-04:00Orchid Grey Has Moved!<p><b>Orchid Grey has moved! Please visit <a href="http://www.byjuliesharp.com/" target="_blank">By Julie Sharp</a> for the latest and greatest and follow me on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/byjuliesharp/" target="_blank">Instagram here</a>.</b></p><p>Thank you so much to everyone who has followed and supported this space over the years - I'm working on moving everything over to the new site, so old content will continue to be available for the foreseeable future. If you'd like to learn more about WHY I chose to make this move, you can check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CEkn_GunQ5A/" target="_blank"><b>this post</b></a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CEktgaxHzo5/" target="_blank"><b>this post</b></a>.</p><p>Love, </p><p>Julie</p>Orchid Greyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14547415631237933862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-335172919436292903.post-33608218186885704142020-05-24T18:02:00.000-04:002020-05-24T18:02:38.781-04:00Weekend Reading 5.24.2020<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Well hi! I think this has officially been the longest I've gone without updating this blog in the ten years I've been running it – wedding week included. I've been working on something new behind the scenes, which I'm hoping to launch this week, and I've been enjoying the start of nice weather in Maine and trying to motivate myself into job hunting more seriously. With the return of the sun to our state, I've felt as though I've fallen into a semblance of a rhythm, enjoying the outdoors and focusing on my health again, and feeling, dare I say, a little <i>normal?</i> I've even been getting <i>dressed</i>, and not just in loungewear! Sure, on most days it's a tee and leggings, dressed up with simple jewelry, like a <a href="https://auratenewyork.com/collections/ear-cuffs" target="_blank">pretty, understated ear cuff</a> or gold necklace – I'm all about dressing up a basic outfit with more refined jewelry. But as the weather warms I've been breaking out my dresses and other summer staples – and I can't wait until it's dress weather every day. I'm still loving the dainty jewelry of last summer, but have been adding big hoops and other <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/roxanne-assoulin/br/v=1/60580.htm" target="_blank">statement pieces</a>, too.<br />
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Not every day is perfect, but I've found that it helps to pencil in some days when I'm not focused on computer work, especially on Wednesdays, which everyone seems to agree is the new Monday. I've also finally started some projects UNRELATED to work of any kind. This is news. BIG news. Because my work and my life are constantly flowing into one another and it has to stop. For my own sanity. How good did it feel to just make something for myself? So good, let me tell you. 10/10 recommend. Five stars.<br />
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OK, on to the links. Stay tuned for the aforementioned NEW PROJECT. Because I need to get this done goddammit.<br />
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<b><a href="https://unitedbyblue.com/?collab=orchidgrey" target="_blank">United By Blue</a></b> is having a major warehouse sale! Reminder that you can save <b>15% off your order with the code 'orchidgrey15'</b><br />
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The styling in <a href="https://www.manrepeller.com/2020/05/harry-styles-watermelon-sugar-style.html" target="_blank">this music video</a> is truly excellent. Let it inspire you. Soak it up. Order a pair of <a href="https://bit.ly/2LUJlw7" target="_blank">super bright sunglasses</a>.<br />
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<a href="https://bit.ly/2X2RIMN" target="_blank">This tinted serum</a> has been my go-to "no-makeup" look while staying at home. it's light and beneficial for skin, while making me feel a little more put together for those moments I catch myself in the mirror<br />
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<a href="https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2020/05/18/style/the-joy-of.html" target="_blank">The joy of...</a> (currently enjoying the Joy Of The Two Mile Run (achievable!))<br />
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OGEE just launched a <a href="https://organablis.ogee.com/products/cbd-sculpted-lip-oil?aff=37" target="_blank"><b>CBD lip oil</b></a> and it's amazing, I can tell you from experience. Save <b>15% off your order w/code 'Julie4</b>' (I also swear by <a href="https://ogee.com/products/liquid-gold-cleansing-oil?aff=37" target="_blank">this cleansing oil</a>. It removes makeup like nothing else)<br />
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A <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/haunted-house/id1503453999?i=1000474730191" target="_blank">podcast episode</a> on quarantining with your ghost<br />
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Just a reminder you can save <a href="https://www.shethinx.com/pages/leader-julieoboyle" target="_blank">$10 off your first Thinx order</a> by shopping through my profile! This includes saver sets so you can save even more. They've been a godsend during this whole thing<br />
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One of my absolute <a href="https://bit.ly/36rNJvZ" target="_blank">favorite Etsy shops</a> for beading/DIY supplies – I just placed a huge order (my team at Etsy HQ used to order from her all the time!) This <a href="https://honestlywtf.com/diy/diy-mother-of-pearl-jewlery/" target="_blank">necklace DIY</a> is next on my list of things to make<br />
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Dermstore is having a <a href="https://bit.ly/3gnf0oe" target="_blank">huge summer beauty sale</a> - 20% off with code 'SUMMER'! I'm grabbing this <a href="https://bit.ly/2AY958M" target="_blank">excellent dry shampoo</a>, and restocking this <a href="https://bit.ly/2A8JSbq" target="_blank">vitamin C serum</a> and<br />
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Save 15% off from Brooklinen! We have <a href="https://bit.ly/3d2XKlO" target="_blank">this linen duvet cover</a> and love it.<br />
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These <a href="https://www.halfbakedharvest.com/spicy-peanut-noodles/" target="_blank">spicy peanut noodles</a> sound so good – and easy enough to make with spaghetti squash if that's your jam (it's mine)<br />
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<br />Orchid Greyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14547415631237933862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-335172919436292903.post-18560910117991118942020-04-18T15:20:00.001-04:002020-04-18T15:20:31.413-04:00Weekend Reading 4.18<div style="text-align: center;">
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Suddenly it's Saturday. I'm sure I'm not the only one feeling this, but the days of the week are starting to lose meaning. Like everyone else, I'm missing a lot right now, but also so thankful that Chris and I have been healthy and safe. I wish I had something more exciting to report from the past few days, but our activities have likely been much the same as everyone else's: watching a lot of Netflix, Hulu & Prime (I watched both season's of Fleabag this week, and also Blow the Man Down, which is set in Maine and fairly dark, but good. Also Hunters), cooking, baking, working on small projects here and there, and doing lots of reading (about halfway through <a href="https://bit.ly/3aliqDF" target="_blank">this book</a> and really enjoying it). Hope you're hanging in there too. xoxo<br />
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Shared <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/B_BlrbanLcj/" target="_blank">some thoughts on Thinx</a> this week on IG – remember you can save $10 off your first order if you <a href="https://www.shethinx.com/pages/leader-julieoboyle" target="_blank">shop through my profile</a>!<br />
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Sephora's Beauty Insider sale is on! Here's what's in my cart: this <a href="https://bit.ly/2UWcLiZ" target="_blank">clean beauty AHA serum</a> (so good), this <a href="https://bit.ly/2ViFKgT" target="_blank">glowy serum/spf combo foundation</a> (my absolute favorite), this <a href="https://bit.ly/2KjxkPW" target="_blank">luminizing sunscreen</a> (I've head amazing things), and <a href="https://bit.ly/3bntkds" target="_blank">this body serum</a> (sounds so nice for summer)<br />
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As we move into week... week whatever of social distancing, this is important to keep in mind: <a href="https://www.thecut.com/2020/04/self-isolation-is-a-recipe-for-depression.html" target="_blank">social distancing is a recipe for depression</a><br />
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I'm so excited for warm weather, if only to wear something other than leggings & sweatshirts right now (jeans are out of the question). A few affordable favorites: this <a href="https://bit.ly/3bjiTax" target="_blank">striped mini shift dress</a>, this romantic <a href="https://bit.ly/3bl4xGQ" target="_blank">white midi dress</a>, this <a href="https://bit.ly/2yoBF1S" target="_blank">pretty gingham dress</a> (40% off with code APRIL)<br />
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The most <a href="https://www.elle.com/culture/books/g31960919/best-books-summer-2020/" target="_blank">anticipated books</a> of summer 2020<br />
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If you're missing a good cappuccino or latte: this <a href="https://bit.ly/3blLqwa" target="_blank">top-rated coffee machine</a> is 50% off!<br />
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Eyeing up sneakers per usual and I'm very tempted <a href="https://bit.ly/2yo6ljF" target="_blank">by these classics</a> to wear with voluminous dresses (size down). Also <a href="https://bit.ly/3akxd16" target="_blank">these are giving me</a> major nostalgia<br />
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How to <a href="https://jojotastic.com/2020/04/17/how-to-check-out-e-books/" target="_blank">check out e-books</a> from the library<br />
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How cute are these handmade <a href="https://bit.ly/3akxd16" target="_blank">beaded fruit earrings</a>? Love these <a href="https://bit.ly/2VhtvkP" target="_blank">double cherries</a> and <a href="https://bit.ly/3exu2Xr" target="_blank">these tangerines</a>, too<br />
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If you're missing brunch: <a href="https://www.bonappetit.com/gallery/benne-on-eagle-brunch" target="_blank">4 decadent brunch recipes</a> to make at home<br />
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<br />Orchid Greyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14547415631237933862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-335172919436292903.post-52003305368749583162020-04-10T19:27:00.003-04:002020-04-10T19:28:52.898-04:00Weekend Reading 4.10.20<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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How was your week? Mine was… long, a little fraught, with some nice sunny weather in between. True to Maine springtime weather, we got a snowstorm on Thursday night, nearly to the day that we got a storm this time last year. I’m just thankful the snow didn’t stick in Portland, we don’t need to add more of a mess on top of the mess we’re already in. I’ve been struggling to focus this week, but have been trying to remind myself that when it becomes difficult to pay attention to one thing, i can just switch to another, or you know, rest. I spent much of this week trying to finish up this blog transition, editing old photos, and figuring out next steps for putting together some kind of online portfolio for my job search. That makes me sound more productive than I’ve actually been, trust me when I tell you this: every day has been a struggle. A struggle to wake up before 8:30am, a struggle to put on pants, a struggle to figure out when I can reasonably switch from coffee to wine. I feel like I’ve been doing ok, but also, I really, really miss life “before”.</div>
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Hope you’re hanging in there. Here’s a few things for your weekend. XOXO<br />
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<span style="white-space: pre-wrap;">Relatable: Stop </span><a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2020/04/01/style/productivity-coronavirus.html" style="white-space: pre-wrap;" target="_blank">trying to be productive</a><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;"> (NYT)</span><br />
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<span style="white-space: pre-wrap;">My </span><a href="https://www.shethinx.com/pages/leader-julieoboyle" style="white-space: pre-wrap;" target="_blank">Thinx</a><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;"> saved me this week. Seriously with having to use plastic bags again at the grocery store and so many of the planet-friendly swaps we’d made out the window, I love that I can still use Thinx and save money and reduce waste. </span><strong style="white-space: pre-wrap;">Shop through </strong><a href="https://www.shethinx.com/pages/leader-julieoboyle" style="white-space: pre-wrap;" target="_blank"><strong>my profile</strong></a><strong style="white-space: pre-wrap;"> to save $10!</strong><br />
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<span style="white-space: pre-wrap;">If no more movies came out this year, </span><a href="https://www.vulture.com/2020/04/who-will-win-the-2021-oscars-if-no-more-movies-come-out.html" style="white-space: pre-wrap;" target="_blank">who would win the Oscars?</a><br />
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<span style="white-space: pre-wrap;">I’ve been stocking up on loungewear and love this </span><a href="https://bit.ly/39UHLE1" style="white-space: pre-wrap;" target="_blank">pretty washed sweatshirt</a><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;">. </span><strong style="white-space: pre-wrap;">50% off w/ code ‘REFRESH’</strong><br />
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<span style="white-space: pre-wrap;">Amazing news: Ogee now </span><a href="https://ogee.com/collections/bundle?aff=37" style="white-space: pre-wrap;" target="_blank">offers bundles</a><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;">! Love these sets for trying new products and saving some serious money. Plus, </span><strong style="white-space: pre-wrap;">save 15% off with my code ‘Julie2’</strong><br />
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<span style="white-space: pre-wrap;">How to </span><a href="https://nymag.com/strategist/article/how-to-help-community-during-coronavirus.html" style="white-space: pre-wrap;" target="_blank">help frontline workers</a><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;"> during the coronavirus crisis</span><br />
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<span style="white-space: pre-wrap;">I baked the gluten free chocolate chip cookies </span><a href="https://bit.ly/2JZcjda" style="white-space: pre-wrap;" target="_blank">from this cookbook</a><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;"> last night and they’re SO GOOD. They remind me of the ones my mom used to make!</span><br />
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<span style="white-space: pre-wrap;">A DIY I want to make: </span><a href="https://honestlywtf.com/diy/diy-patchwork-denim/" style="white-space: pre-wrap;" target="_blank">DIY patchwork jeans</a><br />
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<span style="white-space: pre-wrap;">The </span><a href="https://bit.ly/39YUZjj" style="white-space: pre-wrap;" target="_blank">back of this dress</a><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;"> is so stunning - and I love the sleeves. So perfect for spring – and comfy!</span><br />
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<span style="white-space: pre-wrap;">Just bought </span><a href="https://bit.ly/2JXXffY" style="white-space: pre-wrap;" target="_blank">these cute pajamas</a><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;"> and they’re so soft! Eyeing </span><a href="https://bit.ly/2y5sDGV" style="white-space: pre-wrap;" target="_blank">this cozy robe</a><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;"> to match.</span><br />
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Hello Friday and hello friends. How was your week? Mine was... weird, as I'm sure yours was too. I woke up this morning thinking about how I used to feel on Fridays, the wave of relief that in just a few hours, I'd be released for the weekend, a long and oftentimes overwhelming list of to-dos in front of me. Now that I'm living the exact opposite of that, I'm not sure which is the more compelling option (I hesitate to say "worse" option or "better" option because I'm very grateful to be healthy and sheltered right now – but I'd prefer the outlook to be a sunnier one). I struggled a bit this week, with loneliness, frustration, with having a difficult time controlling things and myself in the midst of all this. While my mind logically understands that what we're experiencing as a world is traumatic and there's no playbook, I'm really mourning where I was personally before everything really hit. This weekend I'm going to try to find something to work on that's more tactile. We brought our sewing machine home last weekend, so I might sew, or I might dig my watercolors out of the closet. Chris and I have both been baking a lot, too. Trying to stay busy and fill some hours <i>not</i> in front of Netflix or Hulu (but let me be clear, we've been watching a lot of TV, too). Hope you're doing ok and staying healthy, xoxo.<br />
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<b>ICYMI: </b><a href="https://orchidgrey.blogspot.com/2020/03/cozy-loungewear-im-loving.html" target="_blank">Cozy loungewear I'm loving</a> (just ordered <a href="https://bit.ly/34er0m7" target="_blank">this sweatshirt</a>, <a href="https://bit.ly/2UD5G6B" target="_blank">these leggings</a> and <a href="https://bit.ly/2w9VHfB" target="_blank">these pants</a>... wishing I had <a href="https://bit.ly/2UFiCJj" target="_blank">ordered this top</a> too)<br />
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If you're looking for some fun DIY projects, <a href="https://honestlywtf.com/category/diy/" target="_blank">this site has always</a> been my go-to (we're not big on celebrating Easter, but these <a href="https://honestlywtf.com/diy/diy-naturally-dyed-robin-eggs/" target="_blank">naturally-dyed robin's eggs</a> might be on my list)<br />
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I <a href="https://bit.ly/2xJGv9u" target="_blank">finished this book</a> last week (it was fine, readable, a little too heavy on describing every little thing) and <a href="https://bit.ly/3aBztlL" target="_blank">started this book</a> (so far I really like it, though it's a little hard to keep track of the years when everything takes place)<br />
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Now is the perfect time to try out Thinx if you've been thinking about it! Remember you can save 10% off your first order if you <a href="https://www.shethinx.com/pages/leader-julieoboyle" target="_blank">shop through my profile</a><br />
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Speaking of baking things - these <a href="https://www.halfbakedharvest.com/homemade-samoas-cookies/" target="_blank">homemade Samoa cookies</a> look like a must-make<br />
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One of my favorite dresses from last summer is back in a<a href="https://bit.ly/3bIuCzg" target="_blank"> bold new print</a>. Very tempted. I'm all about shapeless things right now. Also please get here soon, spring.<br />
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Have you been seeing <a href="https://www.thecut.com/2020/04/fluffy-coffee-is-what-exactly-investigating-the-viral-drink.html" target="_blank">fluffy coffee everywhere</a>? Me too. And I want to make it! (this is my <a href="https://bit.ly/348jwkr" target="_blank">favorite healthy instant coffee</a>)<br />
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How pretty is <a href="https://bit.ly/2X66d2H" target="_blank">voluminous puffy sleeve top</a>? Love <a href="https://bit.ly/2UGQsxB" target="_blank">this navy dress</a> too - both so perfect for summer (I'm dreaming of warmer days)<br />
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Are your dreams super weird and vivid right now? Mine are. <a href="https://www.thecut.com/2020/04/coronavirus-weird-dreams.html" target="_blank">Here's a theory why</a>.<br />
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If you've been thinking of going more sustainable, maybe check out <a href="https://unitedbyblue.com/?collab=orchidgrey" target="_blank">United By Blue's sustainability shop</a>. <b>Save</b> <b>15% with the code 'orchidgrey15'</b><br />
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<br />Orchid Greyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14547415631237933862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-335172919436292903.post-46089511960855173282020-03-31T22:32:00.002-04:002020-03-31T22:39:15.785-04:00Cozy Loungewear I'm Loving – Joggers, Bralettes & More<div style="text-align: center;">
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So I live in soft clothes now. There's something truly miserable about wearing jeans and other rigid fabrics at home and with our new stay-at-home orders, I'm home all the time – like hopefully everyone else – so it's been nothing but sweatshirts, leggings, <a href="https://skims.com/collections/bras/style-bralettes#?" target="_blank">pretty bralettes</a>, and <a href="https://www.llbean.com/llb/shop/503422?page=womens-slippers&csp=f&bc=474-630&sort_field=Relevance&start=1&viewCount=48&nav=ln-630&newPla=1" target="_blank">slippers</a>. At least until it warms up. It may be spring everywhere else, but it's mud season in Maine, which means the temperature is still hovering in the 30's (oh what I wouldn't give to wear a breezy dress on my patio right now!). And I'm beginning to crave a few new items to add to my very limited rotation because the same black leggings are beginning to feel a little worn out. So I'm looking for a couple of oversized sweatshirts, maybe some <a href="https://www.michaelstars.com/collections/lounge" target="_blank">slim joggers or sweatpants</a>, and some <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/spiritual-gangster/br/v=1/28805.htm" target="_blank">yoga pieces</a> to maybe motivate myself into moving from my couch (baby steps). Staying inside and within our own homes is more important than ever right now – we might as well be cozy, right?
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What are you wearing these days? Are you getting dressed every morning or spending most days in your pajamas?<br />
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<br />Orchid Greyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14547415631237933862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-335172919436292903.post-62694423282068737592020-03-28T09:31:00.001-04:002020-03-28T09:32:04.192-04:00Weekend Reading 3.28.2020<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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And all of a sudden it's the weekend. How are you holding up? We're on stay-at-home orders here, something I welcomed after seeing so many people out and about last weekend and in the weeks between (honestly I'd like to see the state take more concrete actions) – Chris and I are hanging in there, trying to limit the amount of news we're taking in to only the essentials, watching a lot of Netflix, and worrying about leaving our house. We're anxious. Like most people. It's strange to not really have the ability to think ahead right now – there are so many variables. Plans that seemed so set in stone a month ago – a trip to New York, a friend's wedding – have vaporized, replaced with a day-by-day, hour-by-hour schedule that involves a lot of cookies, wine, sleep and, again, Netflix. I've been journaling a lot, that helps. Trying to exercise (though not being super successful with it). And obsessively cleaning and organizing. I've been thinking a lot about what the <i>after</i> of all this will look like. What will we have learned? What will we do differently? How many people will I hug? I'll run out and get a haircut, that's for sure. And gleefully go for a run without worry or fear of breathing in someone else's air. What strange times these are – did we ever imagine ourselves here? Woof. <i>Anyway.</i> On the docket for this weekend? Probably a lot of the same – we've been doing a lot of organizing lately and I'd like to start putting aside things to sell once the post office is deemed a safe place to go. Tomorrow will look a lot like today, a fact I need to come to grips with. Hope you're doing ok, xoxo.<br />
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<b>Two posts from this week: <a href="https://orchidgrey.blogspot.com/2020/03/45-books-to-read-while-social.html" target="_blank">Books to read while social distancing</a>, and <a href="https://orchidgrey.blogspot.com/2020/03/how-to-deal-with-job-loss-from-someone.html" target="_blank">how to cope with job loss</a></b><br />
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I'll limit the amount of Covid info I share because I think we've all had to take in <i>a lot</i>, but found these two pieces interesting and poignant: <a href="https://hbr.org/2020/03/that-discomfort-youre-feeling-is-grief" target="_blank">That discomfort you're feeling is grief</a> & <a href="https://www.politico.com/news/magazine/2020/03/19/coronavirus-effect-economy-life-society-analysis-covid-135579" target="_blank">how the coronavirus will change us</a><br />
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One of my <a href="https://bit.ly/2WPzuhO" target="_blank">favorite Reformation dresses</a> is on sale right now (can't wait until date nights <i>outside the house </i>are a thing again)<br />
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Have you heard of the <a href="https://www.newyorker.com/books/page-turner/the-national-emergency-library-is-a-gift-to-readers-everywhere" target="_blank">National Emergency Library</a>? Fascinating and very cool (NYT)<br />
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Like most people, I've been living in my softest clothes recently – and looking to add a few pieces to my repertoire. Take <a href="https://bit.ly/3aohsr6" target="_blank">25% off at Lou & Grey</a> – love the <a href="https://bit.ly/3aso1Zs" target="_blank">colors of this supersoft tee</a> and these <a href="https://bit.ly/2vYMiYk" target="_blank">wide leg pants</a> as an alternative to leggings (also eyeing <a href="https://bit.ly/3aqLQ3V" target="_blank">this pretty sweater</a> and <a href="https://bit.ly/2WPYeXt" target="_blank">these adorable shorts</a>)<br />
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I've been focusing on getting my skin balanced during this time of less makeup and just bought <a href="https://bit.ly/2R4vJT2" target="_blank">this enzyme mask</a> after testing it out earlier in the year, I've heard nothing but good things about it. I also picked up <a href="https://bit.ly/2QS6Lp4" target="_blank">this simple face oil</a> and love it so far<br />
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Because I think we all need this: the <a href="https://www.vulture.com/article/best-movies-on-netflix-right-now.html" target="_blank">100 best movies</a> on Netflix right now<br />
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Sorry, one more: How to <a href="https://www.thecut.com/2020/03/how-to-stay-married-during-a-pandemic.html" target="_blank">stay married</a> during a pandemic<br />
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<br />Orchid Greyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14547415631237933862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-335172919436292903.post-26692170068347322922020-03-26T14:06:00.000-04:002020-03-26T14:49:42.782-04:00How To Deal With Job Loss (From Someone Who Lost Their Job)<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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As I mentioned <a href="https://orchidgrey.blogspot.com/2020/03/45-books-to-read-while-social.html" target="_blank">in my last post</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/B9z6T2NH5IL/" target="_blank">on Instagram</a>, Chris and I were both laid off from our jobs recently. This isn't the <a href="https://orchidgrey.blogspot.com/2017/07/a-week-in-new-england.html" target="_blank">first time</a> this has happened, but it is the first time we've faced job loss at the same time (we worked for the same company) – and with so much uncertainty. And we're not the only ones. While we may have been ahead of the trend when it came to losing our jobs, the days that followed proved we weren't alone. I now know more unemployed people than people with jobs – friends, family, neighbors – we're all going through it. And damn, job loss is tough even without a global pandemic threatening our health and safety. Whether you're laid off or fired – or a freelancer facing dropped jobs – job loss can be incredibly traumatic. The only thing I can compare it to is a bad breakup – one that leaves you feeling confused, abandoned, and unsure of what lies ahead.<br />
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When I began my professional career around 2007, the thought of losing my job for <i>any </i>reason was unimaginable – I saw it as a failure of myself. But having been laid off a couple of times since then, and having had to file for unemployment, I now know this is just a part of life. If there's anything these past few weeks and months have taught us, it's that there's no way to know what the future holds. I saw myself staying at the job I lost for the foreseeable future – I enjoyed my coworkers, I was learning, I liked what I did, I worked in a beautiful place – and I aligned with the company, but really, how long I stayed wasn't my choice to make. There's only so much we can control. Am I a pro at job loss? Ha, no. Thank goodness. But I've been through it, so I thought I'd share a bit of what I've learned (and am continuing to learn), in case you're going through this too. You're not alone in this:<br />
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<b>Unfollow. </b>Continuing to follow a former workplace – and at times, former co-workers too – on social media after a layoff or firing can be akin to following an ex after they've left you. Their posts popup in your feed, you see them looking all happy and moving on without you (maybe even hiring, to add insult to injury) – it hurts, it's stressful, and it doesn't help you move on. Continuing to follow them can add unnecessary pain to an already extremely painful and at times confusing experience. So I say it again: unfollow them on social media, at least for a time, and allow yourself some distance to heal.<br />
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<b>Take time to grieve. </b>Yes, grieve. Job loss is traumatic, and not recognizing it as such and attempting to move on before you're ready can make things worse. I know this firsthand: When I was laid off from my job at Etsy in 2017, I didn't allow myself ample time to process and grieve. That job meant the world to me – I felt like I'd finally gotten my shit together, only to have the rug pulled out from under me. And by jumping right back into frantically looking for work with a hastily pulled-together resume, I set myself up for a really rocky experience during my job search and at the job where I eventually landed afterward – and didn't last long at. In fact, I'm still talking about that experience with my therapist – partially due to the fact that I never allowed myself that time I needed. So, give yourself a little grace, space, and time to really process the experience, so that when you do jump into your job search, you can do so with clarity and confidence. It may be helpful to talk it out with a therapist – many therapists are offering video sessions, and there are several options when it comes to online therapy that could offer more affordable options.<br />
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It may be helpful during this time to count what you're thankful for. As much as I <i>loved</i> my Etsy job, losing it ultimately lead to us moving back to Maine – a dream that we thought was out of reach. It meant I no longer needed to hop a 5:45 am train to Brooklyn. Losing my most recent job means I'll no longer have to drive 120 miles round trip to get to my work site. It means Chris and I are able to spend more time with each other than we have in the past year. It means I could potentially take steps for a total career change – or just take some classes. As much as I'd rather be <i>employed, </i>it helps to find the silver linings. And more often than not, there <i>are</i> silver linings if you look for them.<br />
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<b>Get your "house" in order.</b> First and foremost, you'll need to see if you qualify for unemployment benefits. If you were laid off from a larger employer, you most likely do – and if so, you'll want to file for benefits immediately. Don't wait to do this, in fact, do it before anything else. I think for a lot of younger people, the thought of filing for unemployment could seem like a failure, but listen to me when I say this: It's your right, it's meant as a way to keep the economy afloat (kind of a laughable concept right now, but still...), and it can help get you through so that hopefully you won't have to touch your savings. Then make sure you've signed any separation agreements and forms from your former employer, and if you need help deciphering them, consider checking in with an attorney.<br />
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After you've done the immediate tasks, you might want to consider taking a little time (see above) before you jump right into the job search. When I lost my job in 2017, I hopped on immediately, searching for jobs that most resembled what I was previously doing – without considering that maybe I'd want to do something else. By rushing things, I don't believe I gave myself the time I needed to really refine my resume and hone in my search to the positions that most excited me. This time around I'm trying to do things differently and take my time. For me, this looked like a solid week and a half of no-schedule-floundering, and then today, getting myself back to something that looked a little more like a normal schedule: waking up early, getting some (socially distanced) exercise, and doing some work.<br />
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That said, I won't be devoting <i>every day</i> of the week to my job search and freelance work, but focusing three (sometimes four) dedicated days to it. Why? Because I have stuff I want to do! Just because I got laid off doesn't mean I have to pay penance and not enjoy this time. While Chris and I are spending most of our time at home, there's plenty here that we want to accomplish, and I'm looking forward to having the time to do it. We've been cleaning, organizing, and I'm looking forward to finally getting a new Squarespace template installed so I can update my portfolio and this blog.<br />
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<b>Call on your network.</b> We need each other now more than ever. In the past, I felt so ashamed about getting laid off – worried what people would think, what they would assume – that I didn't ask for help when I needed it. Not so this time. And because I put it out there, I've received a few opportunities from friends for small jobs. When I'm eventually ready to begin applying, I'll also be reaching out and letting my network know I'm looking and available for work - freelance and otherwise. I'm not saying to ask your friends and network for free services – but this is a time when you could potentially lift each other up. Do you have something to offer that you can help <i>them </i>with? Do they have a project you could assist on (remotely of course)? Now is the time to call upon your networks to see how you could lift each other up.<br />
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I also believe strongly in leaving a job on the best possible terms. It's not easy, especially when you're being let go, but the connections you made at that job could help you land your next position – and you may need to call on your former employer for a recommendation. I'm not saying not to vent, but I recommend doing it off social media.<br />
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Losing a job isn't easy, especially right now, and to be honest, there's really no "right" way to go about dealing with the loss, but I hope this is helpful. If you want to talk more – please feel free to <a href="http://instagram.com/orchidgrey" target="_blank">reach out on Instagram</a>.<br />
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<b>We will get through this. We will be ok. </b><br />
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<br />Orchid Greyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14547415631237933862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-335172919436292903.post-44204415592798741492020-03-23T16:15:00.000-04:002020-03-23T16:24:47.860-04:0045 Books to Read While Social Distancing – Recommended By You<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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A lot has changed since my last post. We've all learned just how much life can shift, the ground beneath our feet moving seemingly by the hour as reports and headlines bring fresh news of what to do – and what not to do, what we thought we were doing right, and what to do now. Chris and I have both lost our jobs, laid off last Friday due to the financial crisis and COVID-19 bringing the businesses we both worked for to a screeching halt – and since then, many of our friends are out of work too. But we have our health at this very moment to be thankful for, and an apartment to shelter us, which we haven't really left over the past week or so, save for a beach walk, a trip to tend to something for my father, and a trip to the grocery store that left me feeling stressed and anxious. We're leaning into staying in, accepting this as one of life's seasons. A difficult and scary one, but one that will pass and that we'll get through.<br />
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So while we pass this time at home – bundled up in our <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/shop-occasion-home-style/br/v=1/58671.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0320" target="_blank">coziest loungewear</a> – and spending time on quieter tasks, like baking, organizing, and cleaning literally everything, I thought I'd share some of the books that YOU have recommended to me (and a few I've read and am reading myself). I asked a few days ago <a href="https://www.instagram.com/orchidgrey/" target="_blank">on Instagram</a> for your recs, and I've rounded up the books – and books by authors – you responded with. I also included a few I've read over the past several months and enjoyed.<br />
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As someone who is usually go-go-go, I'm trying to embrace this time of quiet and focus on things at home. Projects and hobbies that have been neglected in favor of work – I'm keeping cozy (loving these <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/honeydew-intimates-clothing/br/v=1/6803.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0320" target="_blank">super soft pajamas</a> and these <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/varley/br/v=1/61610.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0320" target="_blank">chic activewear pieces</a> for "getting dressed") and getting active when it strikes me (yoga is my movement of choice lately – <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/yellow-willow-yoga/br/v=1/57300.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0320" target="_blank">I like these mats</a> for a bit of cheer). but I'm not pushing it. I've seen a lot out there about "making the most" of this time (and no shade to those who cope by doing all the things) – but guys, I think maybe we can all give ourselves permission to slow down a little right now. So! Books below, and let me know on Instagram what you're reading (click on the image to be taken directly to the book):<br />
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Happy Friday! We've been treated to a little preview of spring this week in Maine and it has me feeling SO excited for warmer weather. I've been taking stock of my closet, pulling out what no longer serves me and making a list of what I'd like to add – <b>just in time for the <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0320" target="_blank">Shopbop Spring Event</a></b>. You all know how much I love a Shopbop sale – they're the perfect time to snag that special item you've been eyeing or team up with friends and family to save on closet essentials (<a href="https://www.shopbop.com/supply/br/v=1/50279.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0320" target="_blank">like these perfect cozy basics</a> and these <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/south-parade/br/v=1/40672.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0320" target="_blank">cheeky tees</a>). So what's the deal?
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So good, right? I'm on the search for a pair of dainty <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/senso/br/v=1/51912.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0320" target="_blank">strappy sandals</a> to wear for spring wedding, a bright <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/rachel-antonoff/br/v=1/47403.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0320" target="_blank">statement piece</a> – loving that mixed floral midi dress! – and some classic <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/rollas/br/v=1/41468.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0320" target="_blank">'70s-inspired denim</a>.</div>
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Will the <a href="https://www.thecut.com/2020/03/will-the-millennial-aesthetic-ever-end.html" target="_blank">millennial aesthetic</a> ever end? (Do we need it to? Can we all just enjoy our spaces and stop worrying about how other people decorate their houses? I have thoughts...)</div>
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Speaking of skincare, I made the switch to this <a href="http://bit.ly/2TrD1ks" target="_blank">clean serum foundation</a> this past week and LOVE IT so far – plus it contains a clean SPF! Pairing it with <a href="http://bit.ly/2wyaKzB" target="_blank">this priming serum</a>. Interested in this <a href="http://bit.ly/38wF4b4" target="_blank">new sunscreen</a> for summer beach days - have you tried it?</div>
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Orchid Greyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14547415631237933862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-335172919436292903.post-56521385826151793302020-02-28T22:45:00.002-05:002020-02-28T22:45:18.232-05:00Weekend Reading 2.28<div style="text-align: center;">
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Happy weekend! I'm going to be real with you – I'm a big ball of anxious, stressed out energy right now. Very tired, equally frazzled, trying to figure out how to maximize my time at home this weekend while I have a work event smack in the middle. It's been one of <i>those</i> weeks – it didn't go well, and all I want is some uninterrupted alone time. Hope your week was better than mine – and that you have a fun weekend planned! xo<br />
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<b><a href="http://ogee-com.myshopify.com/?aff=37" target="_blank">Ogee</a></b> is having a big anniversary sale! Save 20% off sitewide! A few of my favorites: the <a href="https://ogee.com/products/cleanse-treat?aff=37" target="_blank">Cleansing Oil </a>(seriously SO GOOD), the <a href="https://ogee.com/products/organic-moisturizing-lip-balm-with-jojoba-oil?aff=37" target="_blank">Sculpted Lip Oil in clear</a> and <a href="https://ogee.com/products/camellia?variant=29373712662589&aff=37" target="_blank">Gardenia</a>, and the <a href="https://ogee.com/products/organic-anti-aging-moisturizing-face-oil?aff=37" target="_blank">Jojoba Glow Face Oil</a> (I mix with a vitamin C powder to make a scrub)<br />
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Topical: <a href="https://kottke.org/20/02/map-of-areas-most-often-missing-during-handwashing" target="_blank">How to wash your hands</a> (see also, I <a href="https://www.thecut.com/2020/02/will-touching-my-face-spread-coronavirus.html" target="_blank">can't stop touching my damn face</a>)<br />
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So excited about the new <a href="https://unitedbyblue.com/?collab=orchidgrey" target="_blank">United By Blue fanny packs</a>! So cute, so handy - and <b>15% off with the code 'orchidgrey15'</b><br />
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My absolute <a href="http://bit.ly/3cfG5aF" target="_blank">favorite workout leggings</a> come in fun new colorways – they seriously don't budge (also love the new <a href="http://bit.ly/2TnSAsf" target="_blank">St. Vincent collection</a>)<br />
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How are we feeling about the return of the flare jean? I think I can get behind <a href="http://bit.ly/2PxnoWk" target="_blank">this minimal style</a> from Everlane<br />
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Doja Cat's new video: <a href="https://www.thecut.com/2020/02/the-best-beauty-looks-from-doja-cats-say-so-music-video.html" target="_blank">a tribute to TRL</a> (I can get behind this)<br />
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I got a second hole pierced in my ears last week and can't wait for it to heal so I can wear little hoops <a href="http://bit.ly/3aeLWLu" target="_blank">like these</a> and <a href="http://bit.ly/2POb6sT" target="_blank">these</a> – so pretty paired with <a href="http://bit.ly/2PvC8Vp" target="_blank">something like this</a><br />
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On being a <a href="https://www.health.com/mind-body/virginia-sole-smith-metoo-body-positivity-health-at-every-size" target="_blank">"good girl"</a> - important<br />
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Amazing news: Scotland is poised to become the first country to make<a href="https://www.npr.org/sections/goatsandsoda/2020/02/27/809990550/scotland-poised-to-become-1st-country-to-make-period-products-free" target="_blank"> period products free</a><br />
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<a href="https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/two-duvets-one-bed-couples-sleep-scandanavian-method?utm_source=email&utm_medium=editorial&utm_content=everywhere&utm_campaign=200228-movies-shows-leaving-netflix-march-2020&utm_term=control_active" target="_blank">One bed, two blankets</a> - possibly the secret to getting a good night's sleep with a partner?<br />
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I received a sample of <a href="http://bit.ly/397nrQs" target="_blank">this fragrance</a> in an order this week (got <a href="http://bit.ly/36VLEIu" target="_blank">this</a>, <a href="http://bit.ly/387TjD5" target="_blank">this</a> and <a href="http://bit.ly/2TkhzfW" target="_blank">this</a>) and it smells <i>so good </i>- fresh but not fake and just a touch masculine<br />
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Hello. Welcome to February, otherwise known as that bad time of year when everything is grey, covered in dirty snow, and otherwise painful to move around in. Also, it's felt like the <i>other</i> worst time of year for the past three weeks: March. Am I whining? Yes. But you need to understand something: here in New England commenting on, and otherwise complaining about the weather could be considered an Olympic sport. A sport in which I am a passionate competitor. Going for gold you could say. I've slipped into a sort of ennui-driven style rut lately, only getting <i>really dressed</i> two or three times per week, so when I actually do make an effort, I like to look nice. But also be warm. But also not wear tights because I'm very, very over tights. Which is a tricky dance to do – so here I am offering you my tips for how to look cute but stay warm in wintertime.<br />
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See this outfit above? Looks simple enough, but underneath is a carefully constructed foundation of layers, <a href="https://skims.com/collections/shapewear" target="_blank">comfy shapewear</a> (yes, it exists), slips and even a pair of yoga leggings. Here's a handy guide for what to wear <i>under </i>that cute winter outfit so you don't catch cold:<br />
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<b>Tops: </b><a href="http://bit.ly/2USEm51" target="_blank">Silk long underwear</a> is your friend, friends. because I live in the land of LL Bean, I've been lucky enough to find several like-new silk thermal tops at thrift stores, but even purchased new they won't break the bank. These are thin enough to wear under close-fitting dresses and also provide an itch-proof layer beneath sweaters.<br />
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Another great way to layer tops is a <a href="http://bit.ly/2OSOVks" target="_blank">thin modal turtleneck</a> – super cute under slip dresses and they're a fun way to play with pattern and layers. Or get the best of both worlds with a <a href="http://bit.ly/2HqbtFa" target="_blank">sleek heatech turtleneck</a>.<br />
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<b>Middle: </b>Keep your mid-section warm and makes your dresses fall nicely with the addition of good shapewear. I know this isn't everyone's cup of tea, but in my opinion, the <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/spanx/br/v=1/8639.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0220" target="_blank">right shapewear</a> can give outfits a more polished, finished look while also adding an extra layer of warmth. My go-to for under dresses like this is a good pair of shapewear shorts.<br />
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You could also consider adding or swapping-in a slip – easily found at the thrift store for a little more warmth and to keep your dress or skirt from sticking to your tights if you choose to wear them.<br />
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And of course, those <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/koral-activewear/br/v=1/26882.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0220" target="_blank">yoga pants</a>. I'm wearing a 3/4 length pair under this dress because it was cold but I didn't want the look of tights. Boom. Done. Yoga pants.<br />
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<b>Bottom: </b>And finally socks! Good socks. Thick socks. Wool socks. Or synthetic. None of this cotton business. Why? Because cotton stays wet and makes you colder. It's the first rule of dressing for the outdoors which applies to all outdoor situations, whether you're hiking or strolling downtown. My favorites are <a href="http://bit.ly/2wdJgz2" target="_blank">these for short boots</a>, <a href="http://bit.ly/2OUwQTg" target="_blank">these for taller boots</a> where I'll be showing them off, <a href="http://bit.ly/315flmj" target="_blank">and these</a> for any boot or shoe that will have the top concealed.<br />
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Of course a good jacket, hat, gloves and the occasional scarf are must-adds (I've been living in my fluffy blue topcoat and this orange hat lately)<br />
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We're officially in the depths of "Bad Winter", that is, the time in winter where it just ices and the world becomes a hard, icy hellscape that's difficult to move around in. So fun! So treacherous! Thing is though, last week began with a hint of spring, which made getting dressed actually fun for a couple of days. I haven't had much going on lately, so coupled with the weather I've really been reaching for reasons to get <i>dressed.</i> Like, really dressed in something other than <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/beyond-yoga/br/v=1/37625.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0220" target="_blank">yoga leggings</a> and an <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/clothing-activewear-sweatshirts-hoodies/br/v=1/56912.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0220" target="_blank">oversized sweatshirt </a>(TBH I would live in this combo if I could.... aaaaand it definitely makes an appearance below).<i> </i>Grocery store trip? Therapy appointment? Both good reasons to wear something other than my tried and true legging combo for an hour and a half. I'm including a couple of looks from late-January too, because I can:<br />
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<i><b>Above: </b></i>What year is it? 1999? 2000? I often call my style a grown-up version of what I wore in high school and this look is exactly that, right down the the <a href="http://bit.ly/2H7zroq" target="_blank">wide-leg Dickies</a> and <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/dr-martens/br/v=1/53047.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0220" target="_blank">Dr. Martens Jadon boots</a>. However, instead of wearing a Ramones t-shirt and studded belt, I kept it age-36-appropriate and added a vintage polyester top, vintage liner jacket, vintage topcoat, and a <a href="http://bit.ly/388yBnr" target="_blank">pop of neon</a>. I was headed out to photograph some accounts for work, so I needed something I could move in and this fit the bill. Needed a belt though.<br />
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<i style="font-weight: bold;">Above:</i> Wore this to work on-site. Unless it's summer and I can wear a dress and sneakers, I usually wear a big sweater and leggings on on-site workdays simply because I'm moving so much. But this day I wanted to take advantage of the weather. I've been on the fence about whether or not to trim <a href="http://bit.ly/2YAiyhA" target="_blank">these jeans</a> down. On the one hand, I'm into the full-length jeans look, on the other, I'm not sure I'm into the look <i>on me</i>. Regardless, I took advantage of a dry day with no snow to wear these <a href="http://bit.ly/2vpUakL" target="_blank">Everlane boots</a>, which I stupidly purchased at the beginning of the messiest time of year. They'll be great for spring though.</div>
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<i style="font-weight: bold;">Above:</i> Wore this to go buy that fleece and neon hat. It's been so icy and cold here, any day when I can wear sneakers feels like a revelation. </div>
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<i style="font-weight: bold;">Above: </i>Wore this to therapy. Honestly my therapist might be the one person who sees me <i>dressed</i> most often. My top, jacket, hat, belt and jeans are all secondhand. I loved how classic this felt.</div>
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Happy Friday! This was one of those New England winter weeks that started out feeling like spring and ended with a fresh 8 inches of snow on the ground and ice blanketing the trees. Ugh. I'm really trying to embrace winter and appreciate this time of year, but those few days spent <i>walking</i> back and forth to the gym and downtown and running <i>outdoors</i> felt really, really nice. Oh well. This weekend is looking like another quiet one. I'm hoping to get outside and might head up North for some cross-country skiing or the Camden Toboggan Races but otherwise need to do some bookkeeping and tax-prep (so fun!). Hope your weekend is a cozy one! xo<br />
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<b>FYI:</b> <b>I have a new code for <a href="http://ogee-com.myshopify.com/?aff=37" target="_blank">Ogee Organics: 'Julie2'</a>.</b> use it for 15%off your next order (psst, receive a free lip oil with any order over $100!<br />
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Do you celebrate Valentine's Day? I always love the pretty <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/special-valentines-day/br/v=1/59106.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0220" target="_blank">V-day themed clothing</a> and accessories (like <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/valet/br/v=1/60594.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0220" target="_blank">these pretty clips</a>) that pop up this time of year<br />
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ICYMI<a href="https://orchidgrey.blogspot.com/2020/02/january-2020-in-review.html" target="_blank"> January in review</a><br />
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A Valentine's message to Target: <a href="https://engage.us.greenpeace.org/onlineactions/2G-LxsqIAUiFr_cu5FGr6w2" target="_blank">ditch the plastic</a> (click to sign)<br />
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Speaking of V-day, how romantic are these <a href="http://bit.ly/2tDjKSV" target="_blank">vintage-inspired button studs</a>? So classic but updated. And these <a href="http://bit.ly/31EkmEn" target="_blank">nameplate necklaces</a> would make the perfect gift (hint hint)<br />
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Ha - love this: <a href="https://www.buzzfeed.com/ryanschocket2/jimmy-fallon-rupaul-drag-queen" target="_blank">Jimmy Fallon thinks he's cancelled</a> after calling Ru Paul a drag queen (scroll to the bottom for the video)<br />
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Speaking of Valentines, <a href="http://bit.ly/388bKbr" target="_blank">these adorable chocolates</a> would make a sweet (!) gift for a friend, mom or sister (<a href="http://bit.ly/387YOCJ" target="_blank">this sunny set</a> is cute too)<br />
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The case for <a href="https://www.wbur.org/cognoscenti/2020/02/05/trump-impeachment-acquittal-steve-almond" target="_blank">fanatical optimism</a><br />
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I finished <a href="http://bit.ly/383nmg1" target="_blank">this book</a> last night (recommended) and now it's time for a new one! Using <a href="http://bit.ly/37bIWxr" target="_blank">Grace's Amazon Picks</a> as inspiration – she always has great recommendations<br />
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Texting with<a href="https://www.instagram.com/tv/B77R6lTBUNT/?igshid=1nm04fnrfd27h" target="_blank"> Aidy Bryant</a> (who else is excited to watch Ru Paul host SNL this weekend?)<br />
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I don't shop often at H&M but went there last week looking for a hat. I found the perfect orange <a href="http://bit.ly/2tDkLud" target="_blank">creamsicle hat</a> (now needed in every other color – very thick and warm and also ON SALE) <i>and</i> this <a href="http://bit.ly/394CoSI" target="_blank">super cozy fleece</a> (fits slightly oversized, I bought a small)<br />
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<a href="https://www.manrepeller.com/2020/02/office-apropos-winter-day-8.html" target="_blank">6 outfits</a> to get you through Bad Winter, because it's officially here (Crystal's looks are always my favorites)<br />
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<br />Orchid Greyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14547415631237933862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-335172919436292903.post-23201143208540683952020-02-05T20:54:00.001-05:002020-02-05T20:54:31.031-05:00January 2020 in Review<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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As the meme goes, "January was a tough year but we did it." How is it possible for a single month to feel so damn long? And somehow February feels halfway over, it's crazy. The first month of the year is always a quiet one for me. It's a month I use to recoup and reset after always, <i>always</i> ending the previous year on a crazy note (why is this? I'm already dreading the 2020 holidays). Below, I'm recapping a few things I learned, read, bought and liked in January 2020:<br />
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<b>Read</b>: At the beginning of the year I realized I was spending <i>way too much time</i> scrolling my phone at night, especially when I don't have a book lined up on my Kindle or sitting on my nightstand, so I've been making a big effort to change that habit. In fact, January has been all about habit setting and habit <i>changing </i>for me – having a book nearby helps me cut my screen time and actually wind down for bed. This past month I ready two books and started a third, beginning with <i><a href="http://bit.ly/3896gO0" target="_blank">Stay Sexy & Don't Get Murdered</a></i> by Karen Kilgariff and Georgia Hardstark (for those under a rock, Karen and Georgia are the hosts of My Favorite Murder, AKA – the best thing about Mondays and Thursdays). I liked the book, but actually think I would have enjoyed it better as a <i>book</i> as opposed on my Kindle. The way it's formatted, it seems like it would read better on the page. Otherwise, it was great and I enjoyed Karen and Georgia's laidback and straightforward writing style. After that I flew through <i><a href="http://bit.ly/31wCcsN" target="_blank">Crazy Rich Asians</a></i> by Kevin Kwan, which I loved. I tend to gravitate towards memoirs and non-fiction, so reading this was pure fun and such a nice change of pace. I'm looking forward to reading the other two books in the trilogy and watching the movie. Now I've gone back to old habits and am almost done with <i><a href="http://bit.ly/3bhxEej" target="_blank">The Killer Across the Table</a></i> by John E. Douglass, who the show Mindhunter was inspired by. Recommended.<br />
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<b>Bought: </b>I've been keeping my purchases very, very intentional after being a bit spendy at the end of the year, but I'd had my eye on <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/frye/br/v=1/1077.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0220" target="_blank">this pair of very cute white sneakers</a> for <i>so long, </i>I finally took the plunge using a birthday discount. And I must say, no regrets. I'm wearing them now with <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/levis/br/v=1/11096.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0220" target="_blank">distressed denim</a> but I can't wait to style them for spring with <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/reformation-clothes-dresses/br/v=1/9943.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0220" target="_blank">feminine dresses</a>. I also purchased <a href="http://bit.ly/2umoUTL" target="_blank">this set of bright leggings</a> and the <a href="http://bit.ly/2umoUTL" target="_blank">matching crop top</a> for yoga and the gym and I <i>love them</i>. I usually opt for black or dark blue workout sets, but I love how bright and bold this set is, it also just makes me really, really happy and excited to workout and there's not much more I could ask for.<br />
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<b>Cooking:</b> I've been working on incorporating more vegan and vegetarian dishes in my routine this year, along with just replacing meat with tofu, beans or tempeh more often. A fantastic side-effect of this is that I've been rediscovering my cookbook collection. Most of our cookbooks are plant-based anyway, but I haven't used them in awhile – my go-tos lately have been the <i><a href="http://bit.ly/2vOUmu8" target="_blank">Oh She Glows</a></i> cookbook and <i><a href="http://bit.ly/2udIh1q" target="_blank">Oh She Glows Everyday</a></i>, <i><a href="http://bit.ly/2SnoRPn" target="_blank">The Moosewood Cookbook</a></i>, <i><a href="http://bit.ly/2SqMRkG" target="_blank">The First Mess</a> </i>and <i><a href="http://bit.ly/39ckgGF" target="_blank">Love Real Food</a></i>.<br />
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<b>Working on: </b>If it's not already obvious by what I've previously mentioned, I was kind of a wreck at the end of 2019. My skin was a nightmare, I was experiencing major cystic acne breakouts a couple of times a month, I wasn't sleeping well, my gut was in a shambles (which was helping with those breakouts), my period was weird, and I was becoming an expert at talking myself out of going to the gym – or even just going outside (movement is my #1 coping mechanism for when times are stressful and times were <i>definitely </i>stressful). In short, I felt like crap, and it culminated in a really bad night on New Years Eve (some people drink too much on NYE, I ate too much cheese - ha! But for real.) In the new year I cut out all alcohol and most dairy (I still occasionally eat fermented dairy, like kefir and low-sugar yogurt), two things I know exacerbate my acne problems and aren't great for my digestion, and I've been working on getting back to early morning workouts before I sign on for work. It's been a process, but the difference I've noticed is kind of incredible and super motivating. Something that's been helpful for me this time around is not putting hard stops on anything – for instance, I'm not saying I've quit drinking, nor am I doing a "dry January", I'm simply not <i>really </i>drinking right now. If I want to, I can, but I don't really want to. A couple of other things that have helped my skin: This <a href="http://bit.ly/36LXPXX" target="_blank">set by Sunday Riley</a> (I use the toner AM & PM, the oil only at night, and the mask as a spot treatment), <a href="http://bit.ly/36Z9O3F" target="_blank">this supplement</a> for liver support, and lots and lots of water.<br />
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My goodness – how is it already January 24th? This month somehow felt a million years long and also so very short. I've just gotten back from a long day on the road from work and to say I'm exhausted and excited for the weekend would be an understatement. I have NO PLANS. Other than a haircut and to maybe make a trip to Sephora to re-up on <a href="http://bit.ly/2U1x0eK" target="_blank">this serum</a> (it's a hit, will review soon). Also, it's my birthday on Monday so I'll be doing some thinking in terms of how I'd like to celebrate. I'm not a huge birthday party person, but do enjoy using the day (and let's be honest, the days leading up to the day) as an excuse to treat myself a bit. This year I'm not going crazy because I'm planning on visiting family in Florida soon (sun! warmth!), but I'd like to maybe get myself another pair of <a href="http://bit.ly/2NXbKmB" target="_blank">these leggings</a> or maybe an extra cozy cashmere piece (<a href="https://www.shopbop.com/white-warren/br/v=1/31636.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0120" target="_blank">love these</a>). January's been a quiet month for me, I've been working more on myself than spending much energy on outward things, trying to get my head in the game for a new year and just generally feeling like a hibernating bear. I hope you're having a cozy month too! xo<br />
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I've really been missing running lately – the sidewalks here are so icy it feels impossible – but loved <a href="https://thestripe.com/tips-for-running-in-winter-kate-spade-smart-watch-review/" target="_blank">these tips for running in winter</a> from Grace<br />
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January always sends me into a major style rut and I've been feeling super uninspired lately. I think . it's time for a closet clean out soon... I've been eyeing these <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/our-must-haves-fashion-finds-under-200/br/v=1/28182.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0120" target="_blank">under $200 finds</a> (love that leopard top handle bag!), a cute <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/mother/br/v=1/10959.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0120" target="_blank">pair of jeans</a>, and an edgy tee or sweatshirt (love <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/anine-bing/br/v=1/19159.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0120" target="_blank">this designer's</a> pieces)<br />
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Prepare to be <a href="https://kottke.org/20/01/scary-sea-monster-really-just-hundreds-of-tiny-fish-in-a-trench-coat" target="_blank">mesmerized by fish</a> (also the headline is pretty cute)<br />
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I just <a href="http://bit.ly/2Ginw6W" target="_blank">ordered these pants</a> and i can't waittttt to wear them – apparently I'm slowly morphing back into my high school self? But so cute with a <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/clothing-sweaters-knits/br/v=1/13317.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0120" target="_blank">chunky sweater</a> and <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/ash/br/v=1/4733.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0120" target="_blank">equally chunky sneakers</a> (and <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/baublebar/br/v=1/56997.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0120" target="_blank">chunky jewelry?</a> Yes, that too!)<br />
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More of this please: <a href="https://www.manrepeller.com/2020/01/older-women-style.html" target="_blank">3 older women style</a> their favorite pieces from their closets. "The pants are plaid, and well, they're fabulous")<br />
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Ogee has<a href="https://ogee.com/products/camellia?variant=31505040212029&aff=37" target="_blank"> two new lip tint shades</a> and they're gorgeous - Elenia, a soft coral, and Fuchsia – use my code 'JulieLovesOgee' for 15% off!<br />
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"<a href="https://www.thecut.com/2020/01/perdita-worlds-worst-cat-adoption.html" target="_blank">Would you adopt this jerk</a>?"<br />
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Speaking of new colors – Thinx also launched two new shades, Juniper & Pine, and they're so pretty. Shop through <a href="https://www.shethinx.com/pages/leader-julieoboyle" target="_blank">my Leaders profile</a> for $10 off your first order! I also recently <a href="https://magazine.avocadogreenmattress.com/meet-thinx-the-brand-advocating-for-gender-equality/" target="_blank">wrote a piece about </a>Thinx if you're like to learn more<br />
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This was really useful: <a href="https://www.manrepeller.com/2020/01/shoe-storage-solutions.html" target="_blank">5 ways to actually solve your shoe storage</a><br />
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A really great sale: <a href="http://bit.ly/2ZMZDwf" target="_blank">save an extra 50% off sale items</a> from Anthropologie! This <a href="http://bit.ly/2GkmuXY" target="_blank">puffer coat </a>looks so cozy and I'm seriously considering <a href="http://bit.ly/36rU3Sy" target="_blank">this snake-print puffer</a><br />
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In case you need some dinner inspiration: <a href="https://www.bonappetit.com/recipes/quick-recipes/slideshow/sheet-pan-dinners" target="_blank">30 sheet-pan dinners & desserts</a> (my dinner tonight was an RX Bar and some cashews so all of these look incredible)<br />
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Heads up: If you're looking for cashmere on sale, <a href="http://bit.ly/2sVehXf" target="_blank">here it is</a>, plus take an extra 25% off with the code 'Sale25'!<br />
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<br />Orchid Greyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14547415631237933862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-335172919436292903.post-75628744413576638892020-01-12T16:36:00.000-05:002020-01-12T16:36:07.294-05:00Weekend Reading 1.12.20<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hi! Hello! It's 2020 and dang is this year already a <i>doozy.</i> I was writing something before this, rounding up my favorite products from 2019, and realized that the post was taking a turn into more personal territory. All of a sudden it was a reflection on being better and decidedly not about my favorite items from the past year. I'm still going to publish both of those, but need more time to think about it. Basically, I've been <i>feeling it</i> lately. As in, all the feelings, most of them difficult ones. It's made it hard to function normally, frankly, knowing that so many are hurting while I go about my daily life. Especially functioning on the internet. I know I'm not alone in this. This weekend I'm working on breaking out of the rut for a bit, seeing some friends and spending time on our beautiful coast. I'm also thinking of ways to help and get more involved. More on that later, I've included a few links below that could be useful. I hope you're doing OK, friends. Remember to take care of your hearts. It's hard to be human sometimes. xo<br />
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<b>A few ways to help Australia: </b>If you're a crafter, <a href="https://collectivegen.com/2020/01/how-to-help-australian-wildlife-affected-by-the-bushfires-by-crafting/" target="_blank">here are a bunch of ways to lend your skills</a> to help wildlife; the <a href="https://www.wwf.org.au/#gs.r768s1" target="_blank">World Wildlife Fund</a> is working to help animals and has a plan to replant two billion trees after the fires; <a href="https://www.gofundme.com/f/fire-relief-fund-for-first-nations-communities" target="_blank">The Fire Relief Fund for First Nations Communities</a> is collecting funds to support indigenous communities<br />
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If you're sick of winter dressing already (I am), a few easily layerable options: love these <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/free-people/br/v=1/5902.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0120" target="_blank">winter-to-spring transition pieces</a> (that light denim dress would be so cute with<a href="https://www.shopbop.com/commando-accessories/br/v=1/575.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0120" target="_blank"> cozy tights</a> and <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/dr-martens/br/v=1/53047.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_0120" target="_blank">big combat boots</a>), my <a href="http://bit.ly/3a2sQsD" target="_blank">favorite leggings</a> that are also perfectly acceptable as pants (just got them in lime, thinking "daybreak" next. My goal is to be the brightest person at the gym), very curious about these <a href="http://bit.ly/2V9J2DZ" target="_blank">corduroy pants from Everlane</a>. Anyone tried them?<br />
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A good read if you're working to strengthen relationships this year: How <a href="https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2020/01/negativity-can-ruin-relationships/604597/" target="_blank">negativity can ruin relationships</a><br />
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I've been listening to <a href="https://hbr.org/2019/09/podcast-the-anxious-achiever" target="_blank">this podcast</a> lately and it's one of my top recommendations I've been sharing with people. I even shared it with my therapist. Episode 14 could have been written about me.<br />
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Another great podcast episode, especially if you're working on changing some habits: <a href="https://www.npr.org/2019/12/11/787160734/creatures-of-habit-how-habits-shape-who-we-are-and-who-we-become?gclid=CjwKCAiApOvwBRBUEiwAcZGdGLqTRdf1toLEkkpTWrXPa6eocCCLxsMAtRW9IA6PpSpp1V8VLn3HQhoClqUQAvD_BwE" target="_blank">how to build better habits</a><br />
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I've been experiencing some cystic acne lately and along with working on my inside, I've been using <a href="http://bit.ly/36LXPXX" target="_blank">this trio of products</a> with great success. I use the oil only at night and the mask as more of a spot treatment. Then in the AM I use <a href="http://bit.ly/2uzYbCP" target="_blank">this serum</a> and <a href="http://bit.ly/37Zi5Wf" target="_blank">this oil</a>. A+ so far. (it should be noted that none of it smells good, but then again the best skincare rarely does)<br />
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<a href="http://bit.ly/2QKZ1W8" target="_blank">Sezane denim</a> has gone eco-friendly! I have my eye on <a href="http://bit.ly/2QKdVMi" target="_blank">this pair</a> and <a href="http://bit.ly/36Z5dPK" target="_blank">this pair</a>. So classic!<br />
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The <a href="https://www.wbur.org/cognoscenti/2019/10/09/cohousing-community-living-ben-brock-johnson?fbclid=IwAR1WieY04JGv_T5URNc2QJ-2h0GVNyRuPv8hVMUwohu2Hls0v4IWsXhCPv8" target="_blank">case for co-housing</a> – I'm intrigued.<br />
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Love these tips for looking <a href="https://www.brooklynblonde.com/2020/01/easy-tips-for-looking-put-together" target="_blank">more put-together </a><br />
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This <a href="https://www.thecut.com/2020/01/almond-milk-honeybee-deaths.html" target="_blank">article about almond milk</a> has been making the rounds and I think it's important. It's hard to be perfect, but I'll be switching to oat for the little amount of "milk" I use<br />
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The <a href="https://www.bustle.com/p/the-10-most-anticipated-books-of-2020-according-to-goodreads-users-19741985" target="_blank">10 most anticipated books</a> of 2020<br />
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I've got my eye on this <a href="http://bit.ly/3a64JJA" target="_blank">chunky under $80 sweater</a> – perfect? It might be!Orchid Greyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14547415631237933862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-335172919436292903.post-8817092676777849252020-01-01T20:17:00.000-05:002020-02-10T20:18:12.797-05:00Blog Links & Discount Codes<b><a href="https://orchidgrey.blogspot.com/2020/02/last-weeks-wears-23-27.html" target="_blank"><br /></a></b>
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Orchid Greyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14547415631237933862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-335172919436292903.post-18933988908463193232019-12-23T00:17:00.003-05:002019-12-23T00:17:55.510-05:00Weekend Reading 12.22<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Happy Sunday! This weekend FLEW by and I really can't believe that Christmas is just a couple of days away – I'm not ready, but I'm long past the point of being stressed out about it. Chris and I are on the other side of some big events at work and have the next few days off together and I can't wait to just relax. We're hosting Christmas Eve dinner and then staying put on Christmas day – all I want to do is chill, maybe take a walk and watch some movies. However you celebrate, I hope your holidays are lovely and relaxing and all you need them to be. xo<br />
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It's been SO COLD this week, officially boots-all-the-time weather. I've ben living <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/dr-martens/br/v=1/53047.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_1219" target="_blank">in these boots </a>this winter and have another pair in my cart, best paired with <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/shop-occasion-chilly-day-layers/br/v=1/61618.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_1219" target="_blank">chilly day layers</a> and a <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/accessories-scarves-wraps/br/v=1/13564.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_1219" target="_blank">great scarf</a><br />
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What's <a href="https://www.manrepeller.com/2019/12/personal-life.html" target="_blank">a personal life</a>? No. Really.<br />
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This <a href="https://www.vogue.com/article/why-we-hate-sound-of-our-voice" target="_blank">great bag </a>looks way more expensive than it is. Also love <a href="http://bit.ly/2PLPu0p" target="_blank">this beaded bag</a> - so fun for NYE!<br />
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Something I've never considered: <a href="https://intothegloss.com/2019/12/facials-in-different-countries/" target="_blank">how facials work </a>in different countries<br />
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Speaking of facials, this is my <a href="https://ogee.com/products/liquid-gold-cleansing-oil?aff=37" target="_blank">go-to cleansing oil </a>for removing makeup and there's a great gift with purchase right now. Use my code 'JulieLovesOgee' for 15% off!<br />
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If you need some cheer, <a href="https://www.theatlantic.com/photo/2019/12/photos-its-beginning-look-lot-like-christmas/603751/" target="_blank">these Christmas photos</a> might do it (I spy Sunday River!)<br />
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If you've been thinking about a leopard print coat, <a href="http://bit.ly/2sU2Pe6" target="_blank">this one is 40% off</a> right now<br />
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If you're looking forward to getting organized for January like I am, I give you <a href="https://www.whowhatwear.com/custom-closet-design/slide2" target="_blank">these closet organization tips</a><br />
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Really into chain accents lately and <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/jewelry-accessories-trend-chain/br/v=1/60552.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_1219" target="_blank">these pieces</a> are so pretty<br />
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We must thank God for Aidy Bryant's <a href="https://www.vulture.com/2019/12/snl-lizzo-aidy-bryant-eddie-murphy-ass-sketch-watch.html#_ga=2.64503143.953802959.1577077696-1614708484.1554305115" target="_blank">'Beautiful Fat Ass' </a>(yesssss)<br />
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I bought <a href="http://bit.ly/35QhkhN" target="_blank">this beaded headband </a>this weekend and love it – it comes in so many colors too<br />
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The top <a href="https://www.bonappetit.com/gallery/most-popular-recipes-2019" target="_blank">10 recipes of 2019</a><br />
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Get <a href="http://bit.ly/35ZG2wl" target="_blank">15% off TOMS</a> with the code 'HOLIDAYTOMS' – love that they make slippers now!<br />
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<br />Orchid Greyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14547415631237933862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-335172919436292903.post-25307823673314380052019-12-15T18:55:00.003-05:002019-12-15T18:55:34.885-05:00Weekend Reading 12.15<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Happy weekend! This one feels especially well-earned, even though I'm spending most of it – surprise! – working. I'm sure pretty much anyone who works any kind of retail or customer-facing job can relate – <i>damn, the holidays are insane. </i>My house? Not decorated at all. Work, on the other hand? I created a damn Christmas miracle last week. Wreaths were hung, trees were trimmed, stockings were stuffed, none of which were mine.... and I'm exhausted. This year has felt especially harried with the addition of several large events on the work calendar – so safe to say, the holidays have been a little different for Chris and I this year (for anyone catching up, we work together and barely see each other). I feel so behind (the photo above is from last year). But I'm trying to not let it get me down. This coming week is going to be even crazier than the last, but I'm hoping to maybe get a tree at some point. Anyway, shoutout to anyone else whose holidays aren't picture perfect – I'm right there with you.<br />
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I've recently partnered with <a href="https://unitedbyblue.com/?collab=orchidgrey" target="_blank">United By Blue</a> and am so pleased to share a discount with you! Use code <b>'orchidgrey15'</b> for 15% off!<br />
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Reformation is having a<a href="http://bit.ly/2YvtXiC" target="_blank"> big old sale</a> and marry Christmas to meeee. Love this <a href="http://bit.ly/2LZODa9" target="_blank">cute little mini</a>.<br />
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If you're in need of <a href="https://www.boredpanda.com/positive-news-2019-illustrations-mauro-gatti/" target="_blank">a little positivity</a> (I am)<br />
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<a href="https://ogee.com/collections/bundle?aff=37" target="_blank">These beauty bundles</a> from Ogee are the perfect last minute gift for a friend or family member – remember to use the code <b>'JulieLovesOgee'</b> for 15% off!<br />
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Looking for a really nice stocking stuffer? These<a href="http://bit.ly/2Ehl4wC" target="_blank"> CBD bath salts </a>would be ace<br />
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Would you like to cry? Watch this <a href="https://www.sunnyskyz.com/inspirational-videos.php" target="_blank">Polish holiday ad</a><br />
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An <a href="http://bit.ly/2Enca0o" target="_blank">astrological t-shirt</a> you'll actually want to wear (and would make such a great gift)<br />
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Yes Yes Yes <a href="https://www.teenvogue.com/story/greta-thunberg-time-magazine-2019-person-of-the-year" target="_blank">Greta Thunberg</a><br />
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Love these under $200 <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/our-must-haves-fashion-finds-under-200/br/v=1/28182.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_1219" target="_blank">winter style staples</a> (that neon orange sweater!)<br />
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Mark your calendars and plan a trip to NY: this <a href="https://whitney.org/exhibitions/vida-americana?fbclid=IwAR0oM5pfto33zyx56Ycy_LwBq-z23-oBg1D1oKu73ro1aQL5DAr9FSfSu0M" target="_blank">Whitney Museum exhibition</a> sounds amazing<br />
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I bought <a href="http://bit.ly/2qZHsHS" target="_blank">this serum foundation</a> during black Friday and LOVE it so far, especially layered over <a href="http://bit.ly/2Pr4dOm" target="_blank">this primer</a><br />
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Brene Brown <a href="https://www.elephantjournal.com/2019/09/brene-brown-flawlessly-defines-empathy-in-this-enlightening-endearing-video-kelsey-michal/" target="_blank">on the difference</a> between empathy and sympathy<br />
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YUM this <a href="https://www.lizmoody.com/vegan-broccoli-cheddar-soup/" target="_blank">vegan broccoli "cheese" soup</a> sounds so good (update: I made it, is IS good)<br />
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The case for <a href="https://www.manrepeller.com/2019/12/the-volon-party-looks.html" target="_blank">holiday outfit moderation</a> (January!)<br />
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Speaking of all-year-round glitter, how pretty are <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/elizabeth-cole/br/v=1/20124.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_1219" target="_blank">these glitzy jewelry pieces</a>? Love those fringy stars. Also have my eye on a <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/bags-mini/br/v=1/59452.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_1219" target="_blank">cute mini bag</a> for the holidays.<br />
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Lin-Manuel Miranda's <a href="https://www.elle.com/culture/movies-tv/a30208288/in-the-heights-movie-release-date-cast-news/" target="_blank">new movie</a> looks pretty incredible<br />
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<br />Orchid Greyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14547415631237933862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-335172919436292903.post-18288488454837171762019-12-07T09:21:00.000-05:002019-12-07T09:21:07.362-05:00Weekend Reading 12/7<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Happy weekend – and happy December! We have some snow on the ground and it's really feeling like the holidays around here. We're headed to a cookie party tonight so I'm spending the day baking with my mom – and maybe walking downtown to do some holiday shopping – and tomorrow I'm hoping to spend the day outside. This is that magical time of the year when winter still feels novel – so I'm trying to take advantage as much as I can. Hope you have something fun planned! xo<br />
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FYI: The Shopbop sale was <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/sale/br/v=1/13594.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_1219" target="_blank">extended for sale items</a>! Use the code 'JOY19' for an extra 10% off sale items.<br />
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If you're looking for the perfect stocking stuffer, OGEE is offering a <a href="http://ogee-com.myshopify.com/?aff=37" target="_blank">free beauty bag + sculpted lip oil</a> (my favorite) with any order of $95! I also LOVE the <a href="https://ogee.com/products/liquid-gold-cleansing-oil?aff=37" target="_blank">cleansing oil</a>. Use my code 'JulieLovesOgee' for 15% off<br />
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Have you seen the <a href="https://www.thecut.com/2019/12/peloton-stock-drops-9-percent-following-widely-criticized-ad.html" target="_blank">Peloton ad</a> everyone's been talking about? It's very, very cringy if fr any other reason that this woman seems so meek – personal opinion<br />
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December wishlist: A <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/clare/br/v=1/11988.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_1219" target="_blank">go-with-everything</a> bag (love those snakeskin pieces!), a new <a href="http://bit.ly/36aLPi1" target="_blank">extra warm jacket</a> (that cinnamon color!) and <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/sorel/br/v=1/6581.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_1219" target="_blank">some cozy winter boots</a> (my entire family swears by the Joan of Arctic boots), and <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/accessories-hair-headbands/br/v=1/61472.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_1219" target="_blank">a pretty headband</a> for this week's work holiday party<br />
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I <a href="http://bit.ly/2OUTBWt" target="_blank">bought these jeans</a> during Black Friday weekend and LOVE THEM. I'm planning on purchasing the lighter wash next.<br />
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Love <a href="https://www.manrepeller.com/2019/12/open-thread-holiday-movie.html" target="_blank">this holiday movie thread</a> – what's your favorite movie to watch for the holidays?<br />
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<a href="http://bit.ly/2rff190" target="_blank">This sequin skirt</a> would be so pretty for the holidays or New Year's Eve – or just everyday styled with a cozy sweater and boots<br />
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The <a href="https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2019/12/morning-routines/602788/" target="_blank">false promise</a> of morning routines – I LOVE this and this it's an important read. Also my mornings are always filled with anxiety.<br />
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Do you make treats for the holidays? We always do but I have no idea what we're making this year – here's <a href="https://theeverygirl.com/holiday-cookie-recipes/" target="_blank">30 ideas for holiday cookies</a><br />
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Guys, <a href="http://bit.ly/2sUQpTm" target="_blank">RuPaul has a candle</a> and I thought you should know<br />
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Easy <a href="https://minimalistbaker.com/easy-vegan-eggnog/" target="_blank">vegan eggnog</a>. Yes. Please.<br />
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Wow, wow, wow... these <a href="http://bit.ly/2OX9Y5W" target="_blank">stained glass table lamps</a> would be a gorgeous gift – for yourself or someone you really love<br />
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Some great ideas from Joanna for <a href="https://jojotastic.com/2019/12/06/gifts-im-giving-myself/" target="_blank">gifts to give yourself</a> this year (hint: none of them are really "things")<br />
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These <a href="http://bit.ly/33YhWjt" target="_blank">cat stickers</a> are so cute<br />
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And speaking of cats, Alyssa Mastromonaco <a href="https://www.nbcnews.com/know-your-value/feature/former-obama-aide-alyssa-mastromonaco-love-her-cats-they-put-ncna1094901?fbclid=IwAR38219seEGvNdYvIyxzim8lNOlTpskpOZqekNs_qYTHek7LWwpJd2P2kvk" target="_blank">on her love for cats</a> (she gets it)<br />
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Gah these <a href="http://bit.ly/2PqFUil" target="_blank">big chunky sweaters</a> look so cozy!<br />
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Happy post-Thanksgiving coma! How are you feeling today? I'm exhausted and just so ready for this weekend. Lately I've been working to reconnect with the activities I enjoy doing that <i>aren't</i> work or blog or IG-related. I realized last weekend that I spend almost every weekend doing some version of the same routine: working, maybe walking downtown, cleaning up the apartment, repeat, repeat. It's the opposite of interesting and I need a change – I miss yoga and I realized I've needed to reignite some semblance of curiosity within myself. So this weekend I'm taking an intro to climbing class and getting out for a run. Sounds simple and the run part probably a little unexciting but I've been in such a rut lately that this is what excites me – ha! I'm also planning on making my holiday gifting list. I'm not doing much shopping right now, but I am including a few sales I'm shopping tonight – mostly for myself to be honest! Happy long weekend friends!<br />
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<b><a href="http://ogee-com.myshopify.com/?aff=37" target="_blank">Ogee Organics</a>: </b>Ogee is 20% off site-wide! <a href="https://ogee.com/collections/lip/products/daring-darling-gift-set-of-4-tinted-lip-oils?variant=29373871259709&aff=37" target="_blank">This set</a> would be amazing for a friend, sister or mom<br />
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<b><a href="http://bit.ly/33tYg73" target="_blank">Outdoor Voices</a>: </b>Save <a href="http://bit.ly/33tYg73" target="_blank">25% off site-wide</a> INCLUDING sale items! I'm ordering a couple pairs of <a href="http://bit.ly/33tYISN" target="_blank">these leggings</a> (I swear by them for running, lifting, etc) and this <a href="http://bit.ly/2Y1hgsm" target="_blank">long sleeve merino tee</a> for outdoor winter workouts/hikes<br />
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<b><a href="http://bit.ly/2q2YpR1" target="_blank">Follain</a>: </b>save <a href="http://bit.ly/2q2YpR1" target="_blank">20% off site-wide</a> at clean beauty site Follain! I love this <a href="http://bit.ly/2R4vJT2" target="_blank">cherry enzyme brightening peel</a>. I've also heard nothing but good things<a href="http://bit.ly/37PmxI3" target="_blank"> about their candles</a> – a great gift!<br />
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<b><a href="http://bit.ly/2L6x7jU" target="_blank">Reformation</a>: </b>Save <a href="http://bit.ly/2L6x7jU" target="_blank">30% off site-wide</a>! I wore <a href="http://bit.ly/2rzdqdP" target="_blank">this top</a> basically all summer and wished it came in white – <a href="http://bit.ly/2swzQNp" target="_blank">and now it does</a>. Buying it. Also this <a href="http://bit.ly/35QpMx9" target="_blank">dreamy polkadot dress</a> because that one shoulder would work for a holiday party or a mid-summer wedding.<br />
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<b><a href="http://bit.ly/2Y08bQm" target="_blank">Boll & Branch</a>: </b>Bedding retailer <a href="http://bit.ly/2Y08bQm" target="_blank">Boll & Branch</a> is offering 25% off orders of $150 or more – just saying, <a href="http://bit.ly/2XXCJCz" target="_blank">flannel sheets</a> make a great gift for parents .<br />
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<b><a href="http://bit.ly/35cmnbE" target="_blank">L.L. Bean</a>: </b>Save <a href="http://bit.ly/35cmnbE" target="_blank">20% off site-wide</a>. <a href="http://bit.ly/34ySamV" target="_blank">These slippers</a> make the perfect gift for just about anybody and Chris loves this <a href="http://bit.ly/2OUViDa" target="_blank">fleece-lined jacket</a><br />
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<b><a href="http://bit.ly/2KnNlr7" target="_blank">Shopbop</a>: </b>Save up to <a href="http://bit.ly/2KnNlr7" target="_blank">25% off</a> your total order! Check out my <a href="https://orchidgrey.blogspot.com/2019/11/my-picks-from-shopbops-biggest-sale-of.html" target="_blank">Shopbop sale picks here</a><br />
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<b><a href="http://bit.ly/2q0mO9Q" target="_blank">Nordstrom</a>: </b>Save up to <a href="http://bit.ly/2q0mO9Q" target="_blank">50% off</a>! <a href="http://bit.ly/2qWCVpm" target="_blank">These boots</a> would make great stylish winter boots and everyone's favorite<a href="http://bit.ly/2P0HsPT" target="_blank"> faux leather leggings</a> are on sale!<br />
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<b><a href="http://bit.ly/2OVcR6g" target="_blank">& Other Stories</a>: </b>Save<a href="http://bit.ly/2OVcR6g" target="_blank"> 20% off site-wide</a>. I swear by their sweaters and have <a href="http://bit.ly/34yy3ph" target="_blank">this one</a> and <a href="http://bit.ly/2snyhRE" target="_blank">this one</a> in my cart. This <a href="http://bit.ly/2OvYvKv" target="_blank">puffer jacket</a> is also great.<br />
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<b><a href="http://bit.ly/2OwHTlU" target="_blank">ABLE</a>: </b>Save <a href="http://bit.ly/2OwHTlU" target="_blank">25% off site-wide</a> + free shipping w/code HOLIDAY25. I recently bought <a href="http://bit.ly/2NEoxJU" target="_blank">these boots</a> and LOVE them and <a href="http://bit.ly/2P0IT0J" target="_blank">this gorgeous tote</a> is calling my name<br />
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<b>Bonus: <a href="https://www.everlane.com/" target="_blank">Everlane is donating $10 to Oceana</a> for every order placed today!</b><br />
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We need more of pro-winter energy: <a href="https://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/first-person/article-winter-is-the-season-of-my-childhood-im-glad-its-nearly-here/" target="_blank">Making the case for winter</a><br />
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I made this<a href="https://food52.com/recipes/19767-maple-cream-tart" target="_blank"> maple cream tart</a> for yesterday's Thanksgiving gathering and it was SO GOOD. Note: I subbed greek yogurt for the heavy cream and added a splash of orange juice. Served with some creme fraiche – I'll definitely make it again!<br />
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A loving look at <a href="https://www.thecut.com/2019/11/photo-excerpt-taschen-midcentury-memories-coffee-table-book.html" target="_blank">Kodachrome</a> – the OG IG filter. This makes me want to get my film camera out.<br />
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How <a href="https://www.manrepeller.com/2019/11/adult-friendship-older-women.html" target="_blank">friendship changes</a> with age<br />
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Creamy <a href="https://www.halfbakedharvest.com/creamy-coconut-hot-chocolate/" target="_blank">coconut hot chocolate</a>? Yes. Please.<br />
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What's the Green New Deal? <a href="https://www.hollyrose.eco/2019/11/the-green-new-deal-explained.html" target="_blank">Here's a great post</a> on what it's all about<br />
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If you're in need of a <a href="https://informationisbeautiful.net/beautifulnews/" target="_blank">little good news</a><br />
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Happy snowy Sunday – I'm feeling pretty cozy, getting some work done before the holidays hit this week. I know for a lot of people, the holidays start right after Halloween – at least they do in my work life – but for me, I like to wait until Thanksgiving for my <i>real</i> life. Unlike last year though, I'm actually excited to decorate. Last holiday season I felt so overwhelmed by work holiday responsibilities that I really didn't enjoy the holidays at all, but this year I feel differently. Life has been busy, for sure, but I'm determined to actually set boundaries this year and enjoy myself. On Tuesday, Chris and I have tickets for A Drag Queen Christmas, which I'm <i>so excited about </i>(the last time we went was when we still lived in Philly and I consider this our holiday tradition), and we have a mini getaway planned soon too. I haven't started shopping yet, though! Have you? I need to make my list and check out some local shop small events. Hope you're enjoying a cozy Sunday, too xo<br />
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I've been double cleansing for about 6 months now – using an oil-based cleanser to remove makeup then following with a second cleanser – and I feel like my skin is responding really well <a href="https://ogee.com/products/liquid-gold-cleansing-oil?aff=37" target="_blank">This is my favorite oil cleanser</a> and it's on sale right now!<br />
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Bookmark this: the <a href="https://www.bustle.com/p/the-20-must-read-books-of-2020-yes-were-calling-it-now-19217930" target="_blank">20 must-read books of 2020</a>. Helpful as I'm without a book to read at the moments and as a result, spending way too much time on my phone before bed!<br />
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It's been COLD here since basically October 1st, and I've been on the hunt for cute, <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/accessories-winter/br/v=1/13584.htm?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_1119" target="_blank">cozy winter accessories</a> to compensate. Love this <a href="http://bit.ly/37ybPFO" target="_blank">fuzzy striped hat</a>, this <a href="http://bit.ly/2qGfMHM" target="_blank">fluffy knit beanie</a>, and this <a href="http://bit.ly/35zkEwX" target="_blank">classic red hat made from recycled material</a><br />
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Could <a href="https://www.theatlantic.com/entertainment/archive/2019/11/sleep-divorce-bedroom-splitting-night/602122/" target="_blank">sleeping separately</a> be the key to a happy marriage? Would you do it?<br />
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Blair's new <a href="http://bit.ly/35tC8e9" target="_blank">holiday pieces for Nordstrom</a> are SO FUN! Obsessed with <a href="http://bit.ly/2qFxdIt" target="_blank">this star dress</a> and <a href="http://bit.ly/2qFxCdX" target="_blank">this beaded handbag</a><br />
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Do you always get new pajamas for the holidays? These <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/salvage/br/v=1/24629.htm/?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_1119" target="_blank">cute and cozy pjs </a>would be so cute as a gift or for yourself!<br />
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Confession: Chris and I no longer speak to the person who performed our wedding ceremony. Have you ever broken up with a friend? Here's why<a href="https://www.manrepeller.com/2019/11/friendship-therapy.html" target="_blank"> friendship breakups hurt so much</a><br />
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Do you dress up for the holidays? I love to wear something a little fancy and these <a href="https://www.shopbop.com/reformation/br/v=1/9940.htm/?extid=OR_US_SB_BG_BL_orchidgreyBLOG_1119" target="_blank">velvet and satin pieces</a> are perfect for holiday party dressing!<br />
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have you heard of <a href="https://www.bonappetit.com/story/boiled-cider" target="_blank">boiled cider</a>? It sounds like the perfect DIY holiday gift!<br />
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This <a href="http://bit.ly/2KOWExU" target="_blank">cozy sweaterdress</a> actually looks wearable! So cute with black tights and a great pair of <a href="http://bit.ly/2QOB1Sb" target="_blank">hiker boots</a>. This <a href="http://bit.ly/2OGGYhn" target="_blank">midi length sweaterdress</a> looks so chic too<br />
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These <a href="http://bit.ly/35znfHd" target="_blank">personalized hair clips</a> would make the perfect gift for friends or a co-worker<br />
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<a href="https://www.bonappetit.com/gallery/easy-cookie-recipes" target="_blank">Easy cookie recipes</a> you'll make on repeat – bookmarking!<br />
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Moorea Seal is <a href="http://bit.ly/37rrmqG" target="_blank">having a huge site-wide sale</a>! Love <a href="http://bit.ly/2saRDtb" target="_blank">these coveralls </a>and this <a href="http://bit.ly/2KR4qHJ" target="_blank">thick knit cardigan coat</a><br />
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All <a href="http://bit.ly/2D9Go6A" target="_blank">candles are 20% off</a> at Anthropologie! I bought <a href="http://bit.ly/2ri5XzQ" target="_blank">this one in Espresso</a> a couple of weeks ago and it makes my house smell like a coffee shop in the best way<br />
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Pop the champagne! The Victoria's Secret fashion show <a href="https://www.thecut.com/2019/11/the-victorias-secret-fashion-show-has-been-canceled.html" target="_blank">has been CANCELLED</a><br />
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Such a <a href="http://bit.ly/2XIN9WD" target="_blank">pretty nail color for winter</a><br />
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Greetings from day 4 of my hastily taken vacation! Am I on a tropical island? Enjoying a remote getaway? Nope! I'm home, using some days I didn't realize I had (and had to use before the end of the year) to recoup and get myself back together. I'm trying to get some personal stuff done and refocus myself before the holidays <i>really </i>hit – it's sort of working. Hope your weekend was relaxing, firneds. xo<br />
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I'm sure you've heard, it's really cold in the Northeast. In fact it feels like January – so here's the secret to <a href="https://www.fastcompany.com/3052970/the-norwegian-secret-to-enjoying-a-long-winter" target="_blank">actually enjoying winter</a>. Made me laugh "simply refuse to participate in the misery olympics"<br />
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Don't forget – if you're interested in trying Thinx, shop through my <a href="https://www.shethinx.com/pages/leader-julieoboyle" target="_blank">Leader's profile</a> and save $10 off your first order. They're game changers!<br />
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For everyone <a href="https://www.newyorker.com/humor/daily-shouts/hello-id-like-to-network-at-you?verso=true" target="_blank">who's bad at networking</a><br />
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My <a href="http://bit.ly/2Kwi9DT" target="_blank">favorite slippers</a> are on major sale right now! Also <a href="http://bit.ly/331arbj" target="_blank">love this sweater</a> (so thick and cozy) and this <a href="http://bit.ly/37e1ePT" target="_blank">classic jacket</a> – save an additional 25% off with the code SAVE25<br />
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I'm considering purchasing a faux Christmas tree this year after always feeling guilty and fearful of fires with a real one – how do we feel about this handmade <a href="http://bit.ly/2NWyqE4" target="_blank">minimalist Christmas tree</a>? I feel like it would show off ornaments so nicely<br />
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Speaking of holiday decor, Target has a great selection of <a href="http://bit.ly/2Xp8gNp" target="_blank">vintage-inspired bottle brush trees</a> this year (I bought a bunch for our mantles)<br />
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Hello yes I will 100% be wearing <a href="http://bit.ly/33WCj1h" target="_blank">these sequin pants</a> to every holiday party this season<br />
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Thoughts on <a href="http://bit.ly/2r3CRDW" target="_blank">faux leather leggings</a>? I'm tempted...<br />
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The fascinating role of <a href="https://www.manrepeller.com/2019/11/style-in-comedy.html" target="_blank">fashion in comedy</a> (I always love the closing SNL sequence for exactly this)<br />
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I always make a pumpkin pie for Thanksgiving (and eat it for nearly every meal in the days that follow) – this year I think I'll make this <a href="https://www.bonappetit.com/story/pumpkin-pecan-hybrid-thanksgiving-pie" target="_blank">pumpkin/pecan hybrid</a><br />
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<a href="https://ogee.com/products/organic-moisturizing-lip-balm-with-jojoba-oil?aff=37" target="_blank">This lip oil </a>has been saving my lips in the cold weather (save 15% off your order with the code 'JulieLovesOgee"!)<br />
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Save an <a href="http://bit.ly/2U9aDoo" target="_blank">extra 40% off sale items</a> from Anthropologie! Love these <a href="http://bit.ly/2qma3Xr" target="_blank">chic hair ties</a> and this <a href="http://bit.ly/2KxEMHR" target="_blank">cozy sweater</a><br />
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