So, I've never really been one to change a post completely due to a comment- and maybe I'll even catch some flak for it- usually I'll add an edit with my opinion or a block of text to further explain something, but today, I'm just changing the damn thing. This post originally featured this image. And while Anon makes a valid point in their comment and offers something to think about, this was also a personal decision because I don't exactly agree with everything stated in the image, namely: "Being in love means being willing to ruin yourself for the other person". That doesn't align with my thinking, and I wouldn't want my readers to think that it does.
But I do think that sucking at something is the first step to being sorta good at something! So, consider this jumble of words my first attempt. Of course, sucking at something can often just mean that it's not for you and you're doomed to suck at it forever- like the trombone, the clarinet, soccer, the ski team, remembering dates in art history, math, and how to properly pronounce "strategy".